Your couple profile
30 quick questions about you in your relationship. See how you react when things get tense, what makes you feel cared for, what keeps frustrating you, and what to try this week.
No account needed to answer. Only about you, never about your partner.
How you are in your relationship
You want to settle things fast.A pause can feel like being shut out, even when it isn’t meant that way.
What you expect
Undivided time, phones away.What frustrates you
Plans that don’t hold.What you can try
Next time it heats up, offer the pause yourself, with a time to come back.
Example, made up to show the format. No scores, no types, no diagnoses.
What you get
How it works
No. There are no scores, no types and no labels. It describes a few tendencies in plain words, from how you answered today. They can change, and you can hide any line that doesn’t sound like you.
No. It’s only about you and only for you, and nothing is sent to your partner. If you want them to know something, you can copy a short summary and send it yourself.
So your profile is kept privately for you, with your first Playbook and a 4-week guide. Sign-in is free: we email you a link, no password. Until then, your answers stay only in your browser, and you can clear them anytime.
Yes. The questions, the full profile, the first Playbook and the guide are free. Unspoken Together, for couples who want to work on things side by side, is a separate paid option you never need for this.
No. It’s practical guidance for everyday moments, not therapy, a test or a diagnosis. If you don’t feel safe with your partner, please reach out for help: call or text 988, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.